Definition of commiserate in English:

commiserate

verb

[NO OBJECT]
  • 1Express or feel sympathy or pity; sympathize.

    ‘she went over to commiserate with Rose on her unfortunate circumstances’
    • ‘We will have 24 hours to think about the game, to have a few drinks and commiserate with each other, and then tomorrow we will get back to work.’
    • ‘Cllr Dalton was congratulated by his fellow members on the council who were also quick to commiserate with Cllr Scully for the manner in which he lost out.’
    • ‘They congratulate you on the streets after a victory and commiserate with you, or ask you what happened when you lose.’
    • ‘I would also like to commiserate with the unsuccessful candidates.’
    • ‘She must certainly come to commiserate with the poor woman on having had such ill fortune for so long.’
    • ‘People in that situation can commiserate with other parents about the difficulties, and then fall back on agreeing that ‘in the end it's all worthwhile’.’
    • ‘Her friends commiserated, of course, but could not comfort her.’
    • ‘He was the ‘unhappiest man in the land ‘, a singer you didn't so much listen to as commiserate with.’
    • ‘So I called Chris - figured he could commiserate with me, since he got laid off from the same company about 6 months ago or so.’
    • ‘She was to go up to the house when she came home to commiserate with them.’
    • ‘We commiserate with his wife and family, brothers, and sister Mary Kate, also with nephews and nieces, relatives and circle of friends who came to say goodbye.’
    • ‘After her novel was turned down by publishers and dropped by her agent, she created the site to commiserate with other aspiring authors.’
    • ‘The young ones don't complain, nor do they want us to commiserate with them.’
    • ‘We wish the committee well in future efforts to develop a Heritage Centre and commiserate with you on not receiving a grant from the Heritage Council on this.’
    • ‘She knew of his death and was to commiserate with his family had she returned home on Sunday.’
    • ‘Following a breakup, a woman is likely to commiserate with her friends for a while and then get on with her life.’
    • ‘We commiserate with fellow supporters when their heroes and their particular sporting interest goes down.’
    • ‘‘I commiserate with all the victims and those who lost their loved ones,’ she said during a radio broadcast.’
    • ‘I pitied the hapless patient and commiserated with the unhappy house officer, unsettled by the echoes of my own mistakes.’
    • ‘The operator on the end of the phone will speak flawless English, be chatty and polite and might even commiserate with you over the rotten weather where you live.’
    offer sympathy to, be sympathetic to, express sympathy for, send condolences to, offer condolences to, condole with, sympathize with, empathize with, feel pity for, feel sorry for, feel for, be moved by, mourn for, sorrow for, grieve for
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    1. 1.1archaic with object Feel, show, or express pity for (someone)
      ‘she did not exult in her rival's fall, but, on the contrary, commiserated her’
      • ‘Neighbours commiserated her descent and her miserable sentence, but she saw it otherwise.’
      • ‘If I stay out too late at the pub, I can always tell my future wife I was at your house commiserating you and your marital statue.’
      • ‘Just as I had all the bar-room politicians agreeing wholeheartedly and commiserating me with a dram or two, a fellow angler appeared and, with great flourish, slapped four 10-pounders on the bar.’
      • ‘The familiar tomb-like aura still clung to the huge room, commiserating a time and era long-dead but glory unforgotten in the broken marble columns and towering, arched roof overhead.’

Origin

Late 16th century: from Latin commiserat- ‘commiserated’, from the verb commiserari, from com- ‘with’ + miserari ‘to lament’ (from miser ‘wretched’).

Pronunciation

commiserate

/kəˈmɪzəˌreɪt//kəˈmizəˌrāt/