Definition of despair in English:

despair

noun

mass noun
  • The complete loss or absence of hope.

    ‘a voice full of self-hatred and despair’
    ‘in despair, I hit the bottle’
    • ‘Jocelyn fought back tears; she could not stand to see such despair filling his eyes.’
    • ‘Hurt mixed with confusion and a hint of despair filled those eyes.’
    • ‘All her efforts had been fruitless, but there was no despair on her face.’
    • ‘They all had deep despair etched on their faces.’
    • ‘The disruption caused to the hall, added to the cost of replacing the windows has left local people in despair.’
    • ‘Their lack of determination is thought to be something like the despair felt by human sufferers of depression.’
    • ‘Darren caught the two of us looking over and shook her head in mock despair.’
    • ‘Finally, never leave the examination hall in despair, however hopeless things may seem.’
    • ‘Her husband leaned on the doorframe and shook his head in mock despair.’
    • ‘He says every morning he begins his work with hope, and every evening he ends in despair.’
    • ‘Admittedly, these flights each followed bouts of suicidal despair.’
    • ‘She also saw Hazel standing there, worry and despair on her face.’
    • ‘In her wake, the chaos of despair is overwhelming.’
    • ‘As if in pain, as if in despair, everyone felt the sadness and everyone felt fear as well.’
    • ‘On the screen the girl turned, despair etched in the taut lines of her scream.’
    • ‘A feeling of total despair washes over me.’
    • ‘The thought brought me to deep despair and the future looked bleak indeed.’
    • ‘He lived for another 23 years but many of those were spent in despair and disappointment.’
    • ‘The despair in her eyes made her seem older than she actually was.’
    • ‘A wave of despair washed over him, taking away all of his heated frustration.’
    hopelessness, desperation, distress, anguish, pain, unhappiness
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verb

[no object]
  • Lose or be without hope.

    ‘we should not despair’
    ‘she despaired of finding a good restaurant nearby’
    • ‘Your impossible task leaves you feeling frustrated, angry and despairing.’
    • ‘The public is just going to give in to despair at their lack of options.’
    • ‘And now, here we are, a couple of days from the next election and like most people I know, I'm despairing.’
    • ‘Where once she was smug and funny about her career and marriage, now she is feisty and despairing.’
    • ‘Meanwhile I continue to despair for the future of this city.’
    • ‘It means he has despaired of persuading anybody.’
    • ‘No one seemed angry, or happy, or despairing; you just sensed that this was what we had to do.’
    • ‘Many doctors are despairing that this could be too long for some patients.’
    • ‘Don't despair over one lost pup for there are many more.’
    • ‘That delicious uncertainty has been replaced by despairing, hopeless inevitability.’
    • ‘Others were simply despairing, sighing that it had lost its magic, that it had sold its soul to charter flights and overdevelopment.’
    • ‘Some are hopeful, some are despairing and some are poignant.’
    • ‘Farmers in Gambia are despairing as a shortage of rain is causing new seedlings to wilt and die off.’
    • ‘He was far too young to die and I despaired that I was his only hope.’
    • ‘We despair for the future of the world.’
    • ‘She despaired at the thought of finding the several thousand dollars per year to pay for fees.’
    • ‘I despair for the future of international cultural cooperation.’
    • ‘Always outgoing and generous, he sometimes despaired of the media.’
    • ‘So we can remain stuck there, despairing and hopeless, or we can live into a different reality.’
    • ‘Very often we were chased by an irate farmer, but we never despaired and always tried again, somewhere else.’
    lose hope, give up hope, abandon hope, give up, lose heart, be discouraged, be despondent, be demoralized, resign oneself, throw in the sponge, throw in the towel, quit, surrender
    hopeless, desperate, anguished, distressed, broken-hearted, heartbroken, grief-stricken, inconsolable, sorrowing, suicidal, in despair
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Phrases

  • be the despair of

    • Cause to lose hope.

      ‘such students can be the despair of conscientious teachers’
      • ‘It becomes in a way the despair of philosophers, just like it was the despair of Proust's publishers.’
      • ‘Bottom of her class and constantly in trouble, she is the despair of her teachers and her wealthy, successful parents.’
      • ‘They proved adept at using them and maintaining them in conditions which would have been the despair of others, but they were not curious about them beyond the knowledge required to make them work.’
      • ‘Men's fashions from the late nineteenth century showed a kind of egalitarianism, though their conservatism was the despair of retailers.’
      • ‘He is the despair of his family, particularly his father.’
      • ‘A sprawl of potatoes at the center of the picture is the despair of a family of seven and a worried dog as a pluming rain cloud approaches from distant hills.’
      • ‘There is a stubborn devotion in most congregations to their local interests and mission, which has been the despair of all enthusiasts for world issues.’
      • ‘This passive resistance to change was the despair of the improving landowner, who tended to relapse into apathy after a few years of vain effort.’
      • ‘After a few games he was the despair of every British dad on the touchline.’
      • ‘The voice is the despair of typists and stenographers: there seems nothing to cling to, no pauses, no paragraphing, no full stops.’
      be the bane of, be the scourge of, be a burden on, be a trial to, be a thorn in the flesh of, be a thorn in the side of, be a bother to, be the ruin of, be the death of
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Origin

Middle English: the noun via Anglo-Norman French from Old French desespeir; the verb from Old French desperer, from Latin desperare, from de- ‘down from’ + sperare ‘to hope’.

Pronunciation

despair

/dɪˈspɛː/